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Hello Metro Readers! I hope you are all surviving the quarantine and you and your loved ones are safe from Covid-19. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, and hopefully, we'll be back doing normal things real soon.

The last month being cooped up has been challenging. Although spending a lot more time with Margaret has been fun (hopefully she thinks the same thing), I can't wait to get back to working out and getting in my 10000 steps a day. I have definitely put on some weight that I have to deal with, but I'm sure the end of the quarantine and the warmer weather will help get me back on track.

At least it has been nice being able to see my brothers in the McCarty Metro Chat Room (why not join us every Sunday at 9pm), doing a weekly Zoom with all the Rzepkas, and also Face Timing my kids and grandkids. It's always good to see everyone on the screen, even if I can't see them in person. I miss them all.

In the March/April issue of the Metro, we had 8 great movies submitted for our McCarty Metro Film Project. The theme for the project was about the quarantine and the Coronavirus. You can still view them in this issue on the Film Project page if you haven't seen them yet, or if you just want to see them again.

As spring gets into bloom, and Mother's Day and Father's Day come around, I really start to miss my Mom and Dad. In the current issue of the McCarty Metro, to commemorate all the parents, our Challenge is for everyone to submit a picture of your Mom and/or Dad, or someone you think is a great parent(s), and I will post them on our Challenge Page. It is open to everyone, so it doesn't matter if you are a McCarty or not, let's see a lot of those loving faces, and hope they all bring fond memories of our moms and dads we all were so blessed with.

With the quarantine and sickness from the pandemic all around us, along with all the constant dismal reports on the news, it is tough to stay in a positive frame of mind. The final thought I leave you with is a story about a man who stayed positive through all the good and bad times. Enjoy, and we'll see you on the other side!


John was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, “If I were any better, I would be twins!”

He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed John was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, John was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to John and asked him, “I don’t get it! You can’t be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?” John replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, John, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.’ I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.”

“Yeah, right, it’s not that easy,” I protested.

“Yes it is,” John said. “Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your choice how you live life.”

I reflected on what John said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard that John did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, John was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, John was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw John about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “If I were any better, I’d be twins. Wanna see my scars?”

I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. “The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door,” John replied. “Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live.”

“Weren’t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?” I asked. John continued, “The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, ‘He’s a dead man.’ I knew I needed to take action.”

“What did you do?” I asked.

“Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me,” said John. “She asked if I was allergic to anything. ‘Yes,’ I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply… I took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Bullets!’ Over their laughter, I told them, ‘I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.”

John lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.


Here's to staying positive during this pandemic. I wish you and yours' good health and happiness. Cheers!








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